
My husband and I had to make a batch of leche flan for our friends and family this Thanksgiving. Having left the researching of the recipe up to him, we had come home from the market with several cans of condensed milk - and only condensed milk.
So Erick had to run down our neighborhood Ralph's to buy evaporated milk while I started mixing the rest of the ingredients for the leche flan.
He came home smiling from ear to ear, announcing in his brand of awe and wonder, "
Pangga, I made someone happy today!"
This is one of my husband's qualities that I love so much, he revels in the simple pleasure of knowing he has helped someone - whether it's giving his change to the homeless person on the street or getting a smile out of someone he's visited in the hospital. And that will be what he will tell me the minute he comes through the door, "
Pangga, may napasaya ako ngayong araw! (I made someone happy today!)"
When he parked the truck at Ralph's, he noticed that one of the grocery carts left in the parking lot had a woman's purse in it. Someone must have left their purse behind, distracted by thoughts of preparing their thanksgiving meal. My husband brought the purse to the store manager so that if someone comes back for it, it will be in safe hands and not in a public place where anyone can pick it up and not return it.
On his way home, just as he was leaving the store, a woman ran after him. She was the one who lost her purse. She thanked him profusely, she was so happy that her purse had been returned to her - she even offered my husband money as a reward. My husband declined and wished her a happy thanksgiving. The woman cried tears of joy, she was so grateful for my husband who was a stranger to her.
When my husband came home and told me the story, I felt how happy he was at having done such a good deed. The woman's gratefulness was enough reward for him. I think very few people know this about my husband, how much he loves helping others. His father was the same way.
And I feel that our lives are blessed because of his good deeds. I must admit I'm not as trusting or as generous as my husband is, but I am learning with his example. I think I married a really great man - and I am reminded of this fact everyday.
Happy Thanksgiving everyone!