
My father-in-law was under hospice care for two months before he died. When I married my husband, his father already had dementia - a precursor to Alzheimers. When we brought him into the nursing home, he could barely speak and could do nothing for himself anymore. When he died, those who cared for him cried with us. In the short amount of time they knew him, my father-in-law had touched their hearts as he had mine.
When I found the book, Life is a Gift: Inspiration from the Soon Departed by Bob and Judy Fisher - I thought of my father-in-law and how his last days enriched my life and the lives of those around him.
If your doctor told you that you only had six months to live, what message would you want to leave behind? What would you do in the last months of your life? What unfinished business do you have? Are you prepared for the final healing? These are only some of the questions that Bob and Judy asked the patients at Alive Hospice in Nashville.
Bob and Judy Fisher collected and packaged the legacies of 104 terminally ill patients in this spiritual journey of reflections and realizations. It is when you know that your life is coming to an end that you appreciate the experiences that were woven together to make the masterpiece that is you. The stories of five-year-old Maddie who was such a blessing to her family; Shirley who was a rape victim abandoned by her husband - an alcoholic who was able to move her mountains and build a personal relationship with God; and Jack Logan who gave his life to save two young boys after their boat capsized will cling to your heart long after you have put the book down.
Life is a Gift made me examine my life and how much better it could be if I looked at it from the same perspective as these patients. We are all going to die, we may not know when, but that is a certainty of life. Maybe by knowing what these soon departed people experience, by learning from their wisdom - we can refocus and repurpose our lives so that there will be no regrets when our time comes because we have stared death in the eye and learned from it.
This is a deeply moving book that I would recommend to all my friends. Definitely a must-read for those who are feeling lost and discouraged.