
From the trailer of this movie, I thought Samuel L. Jackson played a psychopathic cop - which is how the interracial couple in the movie probably judged him to be as well. When my husband and I watched it, I realized that the character had a lot going on in his life that pushed him to make bad decisions.
He was a cop, patroling a bad neighborhood and trying to be a mom and dad to his two kids. He is probably still grieving over his wife's death. He is getting pressure from work because of his not-so-gentle way of catching and educating perpetrators. He worked hard to be able to live in the nice home he has provided for his family.
A young interracial couple moves in next door. Patrick Wilson who plays the privileged Caucasian husband gets on his neighbor's bad side by throwing cigarette butts carelessly on Samuel L. Jackson's yard, unknowingly revealing too much to the cop's children in their backyard pool that was visible from their neighbor's home, and just demanding that his neighbor turn his lights that were shining into their bedroom off without listening to the safety reason for them.
The quarrel between the two neighbors escalate fueled by other aspects of their individual lives. The suspension of the cop and the problem of getting along with his kids had Samuel L. Jackson on edge. The pressure of his wife being pregnant and the feeling of not meeting the expectations of his father-in-law making Patrick Wilson quick tempered.
Kerry Washington, the African-American wife who worked from home and wanted a family her husband was not ready for was caught in the middle. She was the more understanding partner who advised her husband that he should not judge his neighbor because they did not know him well.
And I think this was the moral lesson of the movie. People are so quick to judge others, too caught up in themselves to understand what another person is going through that we end up dismissing them. Especially with today's economy a lot of people have problems we could not know so we must be more understanding and kinder to them instead of taking their behavior at face value and adding to their problem by antagonizing them.
You never know how a simple smile, taking the time to listen and doing what you can to help out will affect your neighbor. You could be saving another person's life and not even know it!
Be kind - this is the best time to become a good neighbor and a great friend.





















